Our classis has been discussing the possibility of seating women delegates at our Classis meetings. It is my recommendation that we maintain the requirement of male office bearers as delegates to Classis meetings and not seat women as delegates. There are several approaches people have used to address this issue, but in the end it comes down to God’s Word. If we don’t discuss and make decisions based on scripture, we have no real basis other than pragmatism and popular opinion. The following is the summary of my arguments, and answers to some common objections.
Argument:
Scripture
is our guide for all things, it is inspired, infallible, and sufficient in all
that it speaks of (everything). [BC Article 3,5,7; 2 Timothy 3:16-17, 2
Peter 1:16-21]
Women
are equally valued by God throughout scripture, but have different roles and
order within the family and church. [Gen 1:27, Gal 3:28, Titus 2, Romans
16:1, 1 Timothy 2:8-10,15]
Scripture
teaches plainly from front to back regarding headship, authority, and teaching
being placed in male heads of household. [Acts 6:3, 1 Timothy 3:2,8,
Ephesians 5:23, Exodus 18:21, Numbers 21:16-17, the apostles, the disciples,
the tribes of Israel]
It is
taught through didactic passages, through principles, and through examples.
It is
an example of Christ and his church seen through marriage of husband and wife.
The
clearer passages are used to help interpret the less clear passages.
- Biblical
authority starts with Christ as our head; for all of us individually and as a church.
[1 Corinthians 11:3,
Ephesians 4:15, 5:23, Colossians 1:18]
-
God has
established the church to communicate the gospel and build up the body.
- Leadership
in the church is put in place as a plurality of elders stewarding Christ’s
body.
- Any
assembly of churches, such as Classis or Synod do not hold primary authority over
the local church.
- We band
together as like-minded brothers in Christ to faithfully follow God’s Law and
share and grow in the gospel of grace.
- Our
witness to the world is seen through the visible church and likewise should not
conform to the patterns of this world. [Romans 12:2, Acts 1:8, Mark 13:9,
Deuteronomy 4:6-8]
- Our
culture distorts the biblical view of men and women created in the image of
God.
- Our
culture seeks to destroy the good purpose and witness that God has created.
Summary:
Seeking to be as
honest and faithful as we can to operate as a biblically functioning church, we
urge Classis not to adopt changes to seat women delegates.
Talking Points and Questions
Q. Isn’t all this an ongoing battle between men
and women?
A. This
is not an issue of discrimination. It is an issue of biblical interpretation.
Men and women are both sinful and have both given us examples of poor execution
or poor understanding. In proper understanding, this is not an issue of men
trying to hold power and keep women out. It is Christians seeking to faithfully
interpret and practically apply the word of God to every aspect of their lives.
We will make errors, but we seek to be faithful and encourage one another in
the body of Christ. They best way to do this is through God’s Word.
A. When
men are harsh or abusive, men add to the argument for equality; God couldn’t
have meant that. When men are cowardly or silent, they show weakness and are
not good representatives to provide godly headship in the marriage.
Q. Didn’t Synod allow for each church to choose
for themselves?
A. Yes,
but…our head is Christ, we submit to His headship in the church, as expressed
through His Word revealed to us in scripture. When scripture and Synod come
into conflict, we submit first to scripture. Just as Peter and John did in Acts
4: 19, when they say, “Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you
rather than to God, you must judge.” We also seek to live at peace with
everyone (Romans 12:18)
Q. Isn’t it better to have a woman elder, rather
than a man who doesn’t desire it, or no elders?
A. Paul
writes to Titus (1:5) to “straighten out what was left unfinished and appoint
elders in every town, as I directed you.” He follows that immediately with the
qualifications for an elder, exclusively referring to the elder as a male, both
directly and implied. Alexander Strauch quotes Jon Zens and writes “Better have no elders than the wrong ones”.
The local church must in all earnestness insist on biblically qualified elders,
even if such men take years to develop. We could recommend a number of
resources, including Alexander Strauch’s book, “Biblical Eldership: An
Urgent Call to Restore Biblical Church Leadership” for those wishing to
develop qualified male elders.
Q. If each church is under the stewardship of
it’s elders, then why can’t (or shouldn’t) they delegate whom they wish?
A. First,
the steward is not the head, he must act on behalf of our head, Christ. Second,
Christ left us with qualifications spelled out in His written word for church
leadership. Third, we do not wish to “put a stumbling block in our brother’s
way”, nor to “do anything else that will cause your brother to fall.” Romans
14:13,15,21
Q. Can women not teach at all?
A. The
bible does not command that women may not teach at all. We first must
understand Paul’s letter to Timothy where he says, “I do not permit a woman
to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent.” (1 Timothy
2:12) is in the context of public worship. However, we read Paul instructing
Titus (2:3-5), “Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they
live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is
good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands
and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind,
and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of
God.” However, 1 Corinthians 14:34 says “women should remain silent in the
churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law
says.” Women are not to teach in the churches (publicly).
Q. What about a woman who is gifted and able to
teach, should we not use her gifts to teach all in the church?
A. See
the previous answer. Women who are gifted to teach, have a proper place and are
allowed to teach in those contexts, but not others.
Q. Why do we insist on the concept of headship
today?
A. Because
it is biblical, and illustrates God the Father’s headship over us. Paul writes
in 1 Corinthians 11:3 “Now I want you to realize that the head of every
man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.”
He continues in verse 10, “For this reason, and because of the angels, the
woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head.” It’s not cultural! We
demonstrate our submission to Christ through submission in other relationships.
Most, if not all, of us live with one or more of these relationship where we
must submit to those in authority over us.
A. This
is made most clear in Ephesians 5 when Paul speaks of the husband and wife
relationship as the same as the relationship between Christ and his bride (the
church). Paul starts with a general statement to submit to one another, then
explains specific situations and ways in which we are to submit. He
characterizes wives in submission, and husbands as heads in the marriage
relationship. “[21] Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.
[22] Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. [23] For the
husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body,
of which he is the Savior. [24] Now as the church submits to Christ, so
also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. [25] Husbands,
love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
[26] to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the
word, [27] and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without
stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. [28] In
this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who
loves his wife loves himself. [29] After all, no one ever hated his own
body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church—
[30] for we are members of his body. [31] “For this reason a man will
leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become
one flesh.” [32] This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about
Christ and the church. [33] However, each one of you also must love
his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”
Q. Most of this refers to elders, what about
female deacons?
A. The
church in the New Testament is under the oversight of a plurality of elders
(Acts 14:23, 15, James 5:14, Philippians 1:1, Titus 1:5, 1 Peter 5:1). It is
built on the apostles and prophets (Ephesians 2:19-20), and seen as sprouted
but unfinished when elders are not yet established (Titus 1:5). The primary
passage for diaconal ministry is Acts 6. It delegates a separate task to the
deacons, but also refers specifically to “choose…men from among you”, rather
than women or more generically “people”.
Q. Doesn’t Galatians 3:28 erase all distinctions
between male and female?
A. Galatians
tells us “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female,
for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” The context around us tells us that we
are “all sons of God through faith in Christ”, it is Christ and baptism into
Christ that brings equality. We are all “Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to
the promise.” This is not speaking of the government and rule of the church.
Q. Following 1 Corinthians 14:35, what does a single
woman do, who has no husband to ask?
A. In
1 Corinthians 14:35 Paul writes, “If there is anything they desire to learn,
let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in
church.”. There’s nothing really hard about this. Any young woman is first,
under the authority of her father. When she gets married, the primary authority
transfers to her husband. If she remains unmarried, or is divorced, or widowed
she has other godly men in her life. She may ask her father, her elder, an
older brother, or other godly men in the church.
Q. What happens when wives submit to their
husbands?
A. When
women are silent, men speak up. When women submit, their children submit and
obey. When women honor authority, children learn to honor authority. If we
desire, and require, male leadership, we must act biblically and challenge men
to fight the urge of their old self to sit back and let others lead.
Q. How are men called to headship and
leadership?
A. Men
are called to lead in several relationships in scripture, men must be
encouraged to fulfill their biblical
responsibility. This starts in the home and family, as fathers are called to
bring up their children in the “training and instruction of the Lord.”
(Ephesians 6:4) Also, to cleanse his wife “by the washing with water of the
word” (Ephesians 5:26). Often husbands and fathers neglect or delegate these
responsibilities to others, and thus neglect God’s commands to them. When men
are weak in their headship and neglect these responsibilities, women often step
up and carry it out.
Q. Aren’t there examples of female leadership in
the Bible?
A. Priscilla,
the wife of Aquila, was never described as engaging in any ministry that would
be a contradiction with 1 Timothy 2. Acts 18:25 says that “…they invited him to
their home and explained to him the way of God more adequately.” The husband
and wife invited him into their home together. Whether or not Priscilla taught
him, or simply took part in hospitality, makes little difference. The home is
not the church, this was not a public speaking or teaching from a woman to a
man. It was likely led by the husband and added to or supported by the wife,
assuming a biblical husband and wife relationship as explained in Ephesians.
A. Phoebe
was a servant of the church in Romans 16:1. Some translations say deaconess.
However, we must be careful here about using this term by it’s meaning or by
it’s office. The Greek work used here can mean “waiter,” “servant,” “steward,”
or “messenger.” All of these meanings are valid meanings and use for those even
outside the official church office of deacon. If we consider it as the office
of deacon, there is a distinction here where “able to teach” is not a
qualification for deacon as it is for elder. “Among its general usages,
“deacon” refers to a waiter at meals (John 2:5,9), a king's attendant (Matthew
22:13), a servant of Satan (2 Corinthians 11:15), a servant of God (2
Corinthians 6:4), a servant of Christ (2 Corinthians 11:23), a servant of the
church (Colossians 1:24-25), and a political ruler (Romans 13:4).”
A. Old
Testament, there were occasional women leaders in ancient Israel. Deborah
was one example, she was ruling during the time of the judges. She was the only
female judge among 13 male judges. Judges 4:1, “And the people again did what
was evil in the sight of the Lord after Ehud died.” And that time was
characterized in Judges 21:25, “In those days there was no king in Israel.
Everyone did what was right in his own eyes.” Through Moses, we understand that
they were under discipline or God’s wrath when they were under the headship of
any other besides qualified males from among them. Isaiah 3:12-17 states this
clearly, “My people—infants are their oppressors, and women rule over them. O
my people, your guides mislead you and they have swallowed up the course of
your paths. […] The LORD said: Because the daughters of Zion are haughty and
walk with outstretched necks, glancing wantonly with their eyes, mincing along
as they go, tinkling with their feet, therefore the Lord will strike with a
scab the heads of the daughters of Zion, and the LORD will lay bare their
secret parts.” Jeremiah 5:19 says “And when your people say, ‘Why has the LORD
our God done all these things to us?’ you shall say to them, ‘As you have
forsaken me and served foreign gods in your land, so you shall serve foreigners
in a land that is not yours.’”
Q. Gender isn’t black and white, consider the
efforts of “genderbread”, how can we make clear distinctions when life isn’t
that clear?
A. A
more thorough explanation could be made. Genderbread defines gender not in
biological terms, but in by stereotypical behaviors or preferences. Likewise,
your maleness and femaleness is defined in gradients of male or female.
Therefore, they have “redefined” gender and grayed the lines. This, at its
core, is simply circular reasoning and is contrary to the clearer, historic,
and biblical meaning of gender. For a Christian to follow this reasoning, is
wrong, and is a conforming to this world (Romans 12:2) rather than God’s will.
Q. How are women valued in scripture?
A. Women
will be redeemed in child bearing. [Genesis 3:16] We have the great honor of motherhood.
[Genesis 3:20] Also as a wife, she is a helper for her husband [Genesis 2:24].
Older women will teach the younger women to love their husbands and children
and keepers at home. [Titus 2;1,3-5] Noble women in Proverbs speak of wisdom, makes
linen garments, and watches over the affairs of her household. [Proverbs
31:10+]